Katie and Terry McCabe | Certified Marriage Coaches on Instagram: "one of the greatest distinctions between men and women is how we feel around physical intimacy. men need intimacy to feel connected and women need emotional connection in order to feel safe for intimacy. one is not better than the other. they are simply different. if you want to have a thriving intimate life with your wife you would do well to understand her. stop trying to convince her that your way is better. stop trying to con